We need to take the language back. Disagreement is now labeled “hate”, people who are offended can’t counter arguments with facts, so they just call things “upsetting”. Everyone wants a “safe space”. Those only exist on liberal college campuses, and nowhere else.
Have you heard anyone over the age of 40 call something they vehemently disagree with “upsetting”? Can you imagine our military members calling things “upsetting”? Winston Churchill? “Oh, Hitler is so UPSETTING….”
Something is either RIGHT or it’s WRONG. The fact that it “upsets” you doesn’t make it WRONG.